Trust needs to be earned.

Salam... Heyyo heyyo! Sekarang sementara tengah carik idea untuk assignment Management ni, saja bukak blog nak tenangkan fikiran yang serabut ni ha. Huhu. Serius tension (!) Nasib baik everything is going smoothly. Esok ada 2 assignments kena hantar and nasib baik jugaklah dapat group leader yang baik hati sebab dah siapkan assignment tu. Ceh, sah kena belanja dia lepas ni. Esok tinggal nak present je. Nampak macam relaks je esok ada presentation, tapi dalam hati... Perghhh perrghh PERRGGHH...!! Minggu ni serius serabut gila. Sampai tak tidur pun ada. Cepatlah hari Sabtu. Nak balik rumah. Nak makan banyak :B 

Owh, last evening during class, I found something in the text book of Principles of Management and simply feels like sharing here :)

Suggestions for Building Trust:

- Practice openness

- Be fair

- Speak your feelings

- Tell the truth

- Show consistency

- Fulfill your promises

- Maintain confidence

- Demonstrate competence

Okay then. Nak berhenti merungut dan buat assignment ni sampai siap.

Ohrawak: Perlukan tidur yang mencukupi.

I'm the one who...

- laughs as hard as I could and wanted to whenever someone makes jokes.

- wears tracksuit and t-shirt and wandering around the college with that clothes. well, it's kinda 'wajib' for someone (mostly everyone) in the private college to dress up as you wanna go to shopping mall, eventhough you are actually heading to the class. Somehow, I don't really mind bout it :)

- does spontaneous things to the one who I really comfortable to. If I did something crazy and spontaneous in front of your eyes, you are the lucky one ;)

- loves to hear gossips but hardly spill it to anyone.

- people see me as a silent girl. Even my lecturer called me 'spiral of silence'. But, you don't know the truth, bebeyh :D

I simply say all this for you to know a bit bout me though I know you are not paying any attention -__- I like it when a person befriends with me first, before she judged me. That's all.

Jealousy is a motivation.

Jealousy. Don’t try to lie to me, others or even yourself that you never felt this feeling before. Of course you did, right? The person that we always jealous of is always the pretty one, rich and have a better life than yours, right? I’m not typing this to tell you that I’m the right one but this is somehow the truth. When we look at someone who has nice car, beautiful face, financially stable, happy love story and many more, we will feel jealous of them. Then there comes the jelousy and negative feeling and you start to talk to yourself “Eleh, she just wanna show off”, “Ah, there’s someone pretty than her”, “Duh, mine is better than her” or “trust me. They are just pretending. Eleh eleh”. We can’t deny this inner thoughts had appeared in our mind.

My point is, it’s okay to be jealous as it is a natural feeling that everybody in this world has. Mind me if I say that you are not normal if you’ve never felt any jealousy towards anyone in entire of your life. But, why don’t you try to apply this jealousy in your mind as a motivation to yourself??

In my life, I have always feel jealous towards this particular person; which is my cousin. She is a beautiful, smart, talented and nice girl that I have ever met. I always feel insecure whenever I’m with her because my family always comparing me with her and of course, she’s the one who won the title of ‘owh-you-are-the-most-perfect-girl-we’ve-ever-seen’. She always get the praise and as the black sheep, I always received the words that always make me down and feel insecure, sad and depress. Everytime I feel upset with myself, I’ll tell myself; ‘it’s okay to be imperfect. Try to make it as a positive thing. You can be better as you try harder in your life and achieve what you want. Ignore what people said about you. You just have to prove to yourself and them that you can succeed by your own way”. As long as I’ve this thought in my mind, I will be fine. I try to motivate myself to be in the same level or probably higher than her. In this case, we’ll be in a win-win situation. No one’ll get hurt and no one’ll get any sin by saying bad stuff to others because of jealousy.

The key point here is, be positive. Try to befriend with the one that you’re jealous with. If it’s hard to befriend with her because she is Jessica Alba, then try to make her as an inspiration. Don’t la kutuk-kutuk that person. You’ll only receive the sin and your life also won’t change to any better. Make yourself and anyone around you happy. As simple as that :)

Pendengar yang baik.

Assalamualaikum

This is my first attempt to make a blog. Well actually tipu. Ni kali kedua sebenarnya aku buat blog ni ha. Kalau tak silap farberry.blogspot link blog tu, tapi tak perlula korang rajin sangat carik blog tu sebab dah tak

wujud dah pun. Sebab-sebab blog pertama dimusnahkan sesenang ABC:

- Dulu dah tak ade idea nak post entri baru
- Masa tu mood nak berblogging tu dah hilang macam tu je (biasalah nak berblogging kena ada mood dan feel bebeyh)
- Malas. Okey malas nak explain

            Habis tu kenapa sekarang tiba-tiba rajin masuk dunia blogging balik? Sebab… Syok owh tengok blog  orang lain yang penuh dengan cerita-cerita best. Frankly speaking, best to watch others’ blogs and they were like pulling me to join them into the blogging word. Susah nak explain, tapi tu lah apa yang aku rasa sekarang ni. Hopefully lah kali ni aku tak hangat-hangat najis ayam and aku akan terus berblogging sampailah jari ni lebam. Hehe.

      As a first entri ni aku nak cerita pasal bercerita. (duhh.. baru nak start bercerita ke? -__- ) Korang kalau bercerita kat kawan, pakwe/makwe, mak bapak, adik abang korang, apa yang korang selalu cerita ek dan macam mana cara korang bercerita? Aku ni suka cerita macam-macam benda kat dua orang watak utama dalam hidup aku, iaitu encik kekasih hati dan cik sahabat baik. Diorang lah yang selalu tadah telinga diorang kat aku untuk aku luahkan segala cerita kat aku. Both of them are the best listener I ever had. Aku ni kalau bercerita, gerenti aku elaborate cerita aku tu panjang-panjang. Aku nak pendengar (macam ramai je pendengarnya) faham betul-betul apa yang aku nak sampaikan dari A sampailah B. Contohnya, topik cerita aku, ‘saya baru je lepas makan’. Tapi bila aku bercerita kat orang tu, aku bercerita aku beli makanan tu kat mana, beli dengan siapa, makan dengan apa, guna tangan or sudu. Haa cukup detail, kan? Macam tu la aku.

    

      Bagi aku, pendengar yang baik ni bermaksud, dia tunjuk yang dia betul-betul berminat bila dia dengar cerita aku. Cukuplah pandang muka aku and tunjuk betapa minatnya dia dengan cerita aku. Respond sikit pun cukuplah. Fara tak kisah. Asalkan dia tunjuk minat dia. Pendengar yang tak berapa nak baik bagi aku, dari reaksi muka dia menunjukkan yang dia tak berapa minat sangat nak dengar cerita aku, lepas tu bila aku dah habis bercerita boleh pulak dia sesuka hati tukar topik tanpa bagi sikit pun respon. Paling teruk bila aku dah abis cerita berjela-jela, terus keluar dialog "eh, kau cakap apa tadi ye?" -__- . Orang yang macam ni memang susah sikit aku nak ajak borak bersungguh-sungguh. Borak benda common je.

     Untuk jadi pendengar yang baik memang senang. Tadahkan telinga, bagi respond yang memberangsangkan. Tak susah. Tapi tak ramai yang boleh jadi pendengar yang baik dan setia. Hopefully yang baca ni pendengar setialah ye? :)